You can vary the sheen somewhat when airbrushing by how dry you apply the paint. You can make gloss paint look semi-gloss by increasing air pressure and putting down a very thin, dry coat. You can use flat paint and use lower pressure and put down a very wet coat.
It is great if you can buy gloss, semi-gloss and flat paint in the color you want, but unfortunately you do not have that choice for most colors. Black is about the only color that is readily available in all three sheens.
Semi-matt clearcoats are rare in model paints, but clear polyurethane is available in all three sheens. It is possible to airbrush polyurethane- thin well. However, do a test to check compatibility of polyurethane with the paints you are using.