I don't know if this will help, but here are 2 different (possible) solutions...
1 - Homemade Charcoal
I've had to mix a charcoal to match a ColourCoats shade (see:
http://www.rocketcopy.biz/models/rokket/uboat/paint.shtml - paint chart
at bottom "Dark Charcoal")
Humbrol "Black Green" #91 - 1 part
Humbrol "RAF Blue" #91 - 2 parts
Humbrol "Black" #33 - 1 part
It's a lovely charcoal that looks very black, but really dark-dark
gray, but not just gray, it has a "life" to it (from the blue), but
doesn't look blue. I tried 20 tests to match this charcoal I was after,
and so many came out black or gray. You could mess around with other
colors too
2 - Graphite
This is another great gray-black, funky and also good for simulating
cast iron. get Graphite Powder (easy - automotive/mechanical lubricant
in K-Mart, dept store auto sections, hardware stores). It's
extreeeeeeeeemly fine and slippery. (A substitute is to buy an stick of
graphite, an artist's pencil, and shave it into bits...not as handy but
still works.)
I mixed the powder with a bit of flat black paint. For literal cast
iron, a rough surface, get it clumpy. For fine, less. BRUSH on (I would
be game to put thru an airbrush.) When dry, it looks like a thick flat
black and nothing special. But then you LIGHTLY sand it: this crushes
the powder trapped in the paint and makes a nice weird very charcoal
effect. Fine sanding film is good, as are the foam/cloth modern ladies'
nails emery boards, but they get stained black very quickly.
The final effect is like a less-sparkly gunmetal color.
CAUTIONS for graphite:
1 - too much sanding will go through to base; 2 - it is also
difficult to get a uniform finish over a large area; 3 - this stuff is
FINE and will turn anything it touches black, and is probably harmful
to breathe, use a paper paint mask.
Good luck!
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