Undercoat any red paint with white or silver. The best would be to spray silver, then white, then red. Use flat paints for undercoats.
Try spraying the Tamiya primer from the can—you are covering large areas, so you don't need precision from an airbrush. Aerosol paints are precisely formulated, including the spray head and valve, to be applied from the can.
While some experienced and highly skilled modelers advocate decanting aerosol paints, the practice is very hazardous and I don't recommend it.
If your metallic paint, or any other paint for that matter, has poor adhesion, there are two possible causes:
- The surface wasn't clean enough.
- The paint was drying before it got to the target surface.
The solution to No. 1 is obvious. For No. 2, reduce air pressure, get closer, and/or use a slower evaporating solvent to reduce the paint to spraying viscosity.