Regards tools, a good pair of flush cutting side cutters would be a worthwhile investment, Xuron offer the ultimate in these & they are also less expensive reasonable ones available. They take most of the work out of cleaning up parts removed from the sprue & can save damage on smaller items (when removing from the sprue)
Wifey's nail files are also a usefully thing to have about & are dirt cheap, same goes for regular wet n dry paper.
I have also suffered from filling problems, but after trying lots of different brands, I now use 3M Acryl Green. I think 3M Acryl Blue is better, but it isn't available here in the UK. The stuff comes in a large 600gm tube, isn't expensive, can be thinned down if required & sands well.