TB
You have sort of grouped a few different things all into one here. But, the most important, positive thing I can say to you is to not let anyone have that much power over you>
We must be of an age,,,,,,,,I also had to learn Fortran and keypunch, with the dreaded card verifier, in my earliest days around computers, a good long time before the Apples and PCs came around
I also have models that I can talk about, and can no longer verify that I ever owned or built. It is very hard to build for 47 years, change focus a couple of times, with the cleanouts and purges of "old plastic" that is implied there,,,,,,,and still have many of the models from the 60's around,,,,,I have exactly ONE from that time frame,,,,my very first model from the age of 8, in 1965
I have a couple from the 70's time frame,,,,,,,,,everything else here is more modern than that
as for accuracy,,,,,,,we lived in a time period when weapons loaded onto jets were still classified, and not available to put on our models,,,,,now, thanks to accessory sets and resin sets,,,,,,we can hang almost anything we want to,,,,,,,,"accurate loadouts" have become a possible thing,,,,so, some of us do them
same with paints,,,,,,it costs exactly the same per bottle for a wildly inaccurate paint, a close, but not quite there paint, and the exact FS matching paint,,,,,,,so, I figure I might as well get it as close as the paint company allows me to when answering someone's paint color question
what he or she does with the info,,,,,,is and should be, full up to them,,,,,If I say Magenta 37142, and they go and get Purple, grape, brightest possible,,,,,,and paint that on there,,,,,,,,,,,they still hear "hey, good model" from me,,,,,,,if it is in fact a nice build
accuracy in shape, markings, loadout and color is fun,,,,,,,,,if you enjoy it,,,,,,if you don't,,,,,then simply don't do it, and enjoy the hobby your way,,,,,,,,,I won't try to drag you onto the Accuracy Bus, if you won't try to pull me down off of it,,,,,,we can each have fun at this our own way
Just don't let anyone control your hobby,,,,a hobby is something to do to unwind, not to get wound up about
I hope there is at least one good thought in this for you,,,,,,if so, it was worth typing it out
Rex