Chris, I'm not going to try to get in between you and INDY, or comment on whatever the beef is between you two, but I will say that the posting of PRIVATE conversations is just SLEAZY and CHEAP. Te heck with "Forum decorum"--that's just crosses the line of what a decent human being would do.
That says a lot more about a person than any words that may have been exchanged, in my opinion.
INDY, in fairness, I agree that it was rude for you to tell someone to shove off because they criticized something about your post, or even the magazine. That's not smart behavior for fostering an environment where people will feel welcomed to post their comments.
EVERYONE--can we just liken the decorum to being a guest in someone's house? You wouldn't go in and start complaining about the decor, or layout of their house. Likewise, when you have "guests", you shouldn't berate them or be rude.
Let's edit out the offensive portions, guys, and let this fine thread continue, huh? Nobody is looking any "bigger" for some of the silly things being posted here.