So do I! :-) Thanks for the encouragement, it's helping me to press on through some of these issues.
Well, here's what I ended up with after sticking on the Neomega nose (the one that's too small), applying CA, and sanding for about three hours. The fit isn't perfect; if you look closely you can see slight steps at the nose/fuselage join, esp at the bottom (the nose doesn't flow perfectly into the fuselage). But I can live with it--between a compromise between slightly bad join and a nose that is completely the wrong shape (ie, the kit nose), I'll take the former.
Also added a couple of fishing sinkers to make sure she isn't a tail-sitter.
Next--rear wings/stabilizers, then I tackle Eduard's Alamo A and B aftermarket missile set. I'm sure that will offer a whole set of different challenges. :-)
PB