Rather than wax paper, which you can contaminate the paint with bits of wax or residue, try the "saran wrap" type of material. anything that puts a layer of a different material between jar and lid.
In the body trade we have "alignment tools", rather than channel lock pliers. Range from normal 3-4 lb alignment to fine alignment at 6-8 lbs, and ultra fine at 10 lbs, and my favorite, a 12 lb micro fine on a 36 inch handle. Haven't found a container that I can't open, but once in awhile the contents suffer.