1/48 Modern Fighter Pilot?

It's a big kit, but for $13 it comes with 3 pilots and support figures.

http://www.scalehobbyist.com/catagories/Scale_Figures/HAS00036006/product.php?s=0&t=5&u=0&pg=1&ppp=24&sb=stocknumber&so=a&era=0,7,8&sc=48

Is this kind of what you had in mind?

Are you looking for a seated pilot or a standing pilot?  Monogram includes both in their F-4J Phantom kit (the standing one is carrying his flight helmet) and almost every modern jet Revell-Monogram produces also includes a seated pilot figure.  If you don't have any laying around, pm me and I may have an extra seated pilot you can have.

i know hasagawa made a set of flight crew and had like 4 pilots in it. in fact i have that set somewhere amongst my stuff. not sure who else might have one for you. i know someone will give you better info than i have!