They also make slower CA glue, so if you want more time, as for a slower glue next time you're in the hobby shop- the fast stuff is a little too fast for me, so I understand what you're talking about. I think some of mine you have to compress the parts for near 10 seconds, others as have been said only take one or two.
However I'd give the craft glue a try, CA glue's always been a PITA for me to get used to, any chance I don't need to use it and I wont.
Edit!! WOAH! 2003? Well- hope you found something that worked