If you want to build in 1/96 scale, you could get one of the Dean's Marine Tribal kits...
try http://www.hmbc.nl/merk/deans.html
photos of a completed model are at:
http://www.steelnavy.com/images/McGivern/Cossack%201938%2001.jpg
http://www.steelnavy.com/images/McGivern/Cossack%201938%2002.jpg
http://www.steelnavy.com/images/McGivern/Cossack%201938%2003.jpg
http://www.steelnavy.com/images/McGivern/Cossack%201938%2004.jpg
Some references....
"British Destroyers, 1892-1953", Edgar J. March plans, photos, hull lines, history (great reference but pricey) 522 pp. oversize
"Destroyer Weapons of World War 2" Peter Hodges and Norman Friedman 188 pages (excellent!)
"Tribal Class Destroyers" Peter Hodges, 1971 - Altmark Publications - probably the best source for photos and info at a reasonable price - 80 pp.
"The Tribals", Martin H. Brice, 1971 - individual ship's histories & photos
"HMS Cossack Tribal Class Destroyer / Warship Profile #2, Lt. David Lyon, 1970 49 pp.
"The Kelly's, British J,K & N Class Destroyers of World War II", Christopher Langtree, 2002, 221 pages oversize (different class, but shared common equipment, excellent book - wish a aimilar book was available for the Tribals)
I presume that you are already familiar with the Haida (http://hmcshaida.ca/) and the books available through their shop.
Best Regards... and have fun