I'm not sure I quite understand the initial question. If you're looking for a kit to build a large-scale model of a sailing ship - good luck. About the biggest one I can think of off the top of my head is the Calder/Jotika H.M.S. Victory, on 1/72 scale. I haven't seen it in person, but on the basis of several reviews and photos it looks like a beautiful kit. It's also quite expensive: over $1,000 in the U.S.
Modern warship modelers have more to choose from along those lines; several companies, primarily those specializing in operating, radio-control models, offer kits that, on the basis of what little I know about such things, look very good indeed.
If you want to admire some finished large-scale sailing ship models, the places to look are the maritime museums. I see your time zone is listed as "-0 GMT;" I guess that means you're in England. The National Maritime Museum at Greenwich has, arguably, the best ship model collection in the world. (Only a relatively small percentage of it is on exhibit at any time, but that percentage will keep you busy.) The old "Admiralty," or, more correctly, "Navy Board" models of the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries are magnificent. Another fine model collection is in the Science Museum, in South Kensington. It's the home, for instance, of C. Nepean Longridge's famous 1/48-scale models of the Victory and the Cutty Sark.
There are quite a few other fine exhibitions of ship models around Britain. I haven't seen enough of them to suggest which are better than others, but Greenwich and South Kensington are excellent places to start.
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