I have used oils for weathering years ago in model railroading. The colors listed below would be more applicable to armor than aircraft simply because aircraft are not dragged through the muck as armor is.
The colors are: Burnt Umber, Raw Umber, Burnt Sienna, Raw Sienna, Titanium White and Lamp Black. Artist supply stores generally sell an odorless turpentine for oils. Don't get the regular cheap turpentine because the smell lasts forever after the paint has dried. I have also used mineral spirits.
I generally just made washes to represent dirt and grime, or faded base coats, or highlights and shadows. However, my models were painted with Floquil or Scalecoat paints which are lacquers. For acrylics, I feel that Madda's suggestion of Futuring the model beforehand is a wise one.
Regards
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