John3M
I wet the decal in water...
Was the water hot? warm? cold?
How long did you let the decal soak in the water?
Tamiya decals are usually pretty simple to use; I've never had any issues with them.
I use warm to hot water. Hot to the touch-I can put my finger in the water and not get scalded. The water cools anyway. I use an old Corningware glass bowl, and I will sometimes nuke it for a minute, too.
I let my decal soak till it just starts to lift off the paper backing. Usually it's just a couple of minutes. I use a pair of tweezers to lift the decal, still on the backing, out of the water, then slide it into place. I don't usually lay down a softener or a setting solution first; it depends on the decals-the brand, the brand's reputation, my past experience.
I use an old paintbrush to help maneuver the decal as necessary. I dip it in water, shake off the excess, then use it to push or more often drag then decal. Gentle touch.
I use Q-tips to wick water away, but because they often shed fibers, I prefer the brush over cotton swabs.
I use a piece of paper towel to wick the water away, once the decal is where I want. Then I'll use a setting solution as necessary.
I have also used Future, applied to the area with a brush, to help with adhesion if I thought that the decal might not adhere. But that's not a hard-and-fast rule-none of this is, really, except for the water temperature and letting the decal come of the paper by itself. Those are the two constants.
The only problem I remember having with any decals was with the decals in ICM's 1/48 P-51B kit (a copy of Tamiya's, by the way). They tended to curl as they came off the backing, especially the "Tommy's Dad" nose script. That took some sorting out with a wet paint brush to get it oriented right-side up and to lay flat.
Not as much of a problem, but Wave's decals in their Maschinen Krieger kits were thick. Soaking and applying them was no problem, but they did take some Solvaset to lay down over curved and compound surfaces.
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