I will have to agree with most everything said.
I think `rivet counting' is entirely personal opinion. I don't think there is too much or too little, it is entirely up to the person putting the work in. A few things though...
If I pick up a kit, say it's an older kit that everyone knows isn't accurate, I may have picked up the kit purely for pleasure and not to ... `update', we'll say. I like the box-art, I like the subject, whatever, I bought it and I want to build it. So I start building it, I post progress pictures, get, "hey, that's nice" comments, etc. and then someone posts stating that said kit isn't accurate, this is wrong, that is wrong, do this, blah blah. When I post next, I state that I picked the kit up purely for an oob build and, although the comments are welcome and appreciated, I'm not interested in updating the kit to more accurate standards as I, frankly and not to be rude, do not currently care. Now the situation goes the other way, I didn't mention rivet counting or make accusations, I purely stated that it wasn't my intention to add any detail. If comments are made prior to that first comment about inaccuracy, should one let it go or again state they are not interested yet again?
I stated above about it being for pleasure. I do know that this term is different for everyone, some people build to just build oob, and others to make it as absolutely close to the real thing as possible. If I build something oob, build it to the T the way the instructions say and am pleased with it despite it's inaccuracy, then so be it, I don't see it as anyone's but my own problem if there are things wrong. I don't build for `you', I build for me. This is a hard thing for both sides to agree upon though, some people cannot stand that someone build something oob with it's problems, and some people don't understand why add all the extra detail, again, personal opinion.
Now, the way I decipher rivet counting, as I can say I've said it before and am guilty. If I build something, finish it and show people. Someone comes along and says, those two gun barrels are 1/100th of a centimeter off, the rivets on the underside of the horizontal stabilizer are 2/16th's of an inch too far apart, etc., etc. I may say something. Rivet counting is exactly like it sounds, it is someone who says "there are not enough rivets on that wing to be worth building OR, worth building without fixing". I really do not mean to come across as being harsh but, I could live without this unless I say otherwise. (For future reference .)
It is hard for people on both sides, constructive criticism is hard to give and receive. I think that if someone doesn't mind the comments, then they will say so and likewise for someone that doesn't want them. It's up to said party building X subject to state what their intent is with that subject. If I state I appreciate your knowledge but am building it the way I want, it is not your place to say otherwise, it is called courtesy. I will not post on your builds stating that you are putting too much effort into your build, I will either state that I like it and enjoy watching it come along or, in the rare time where I might dislike it, will take the quiet road and say nothing. No harm dished, no harm known.
Like I said, I build for me, you build for you. It doesn't hurt to hear a `nice job' every once in a while and if I want more, I will let you know.
I could go on with odds and ends but shall stop here. If there is something you would like me to elaborate on, just let me know. (Good topic BTW.)
Josh