I really appreciate everyone sharing thier thoughts on this subject. I totally understand every response. I created this string because of the perceived clueless and self centered nature of others while demeaning anyone elses hobby interests if it does not match thier own. It is funny, regardless of intellect, how most people only care about thier hobby and nobody elses. I have no problem appreciating and supporting other friends interests even if it is not mine. It just seems that in todays world everything is all about self with the whats in it for me attitude.
Also I made it sound as though my wife only puts up with it but to the contrary, she supports my modeling too. On numerous occasions she has bought models or research books, etc. as gifts. She also appreciates my completed builds and provides positive feedback and constructive input. Up until a few years ago she even built scale models too as well as painted beautiful images on canvas. She gave me the entire basement of our ranch home to dedicate to my hobbies of modeling , shooting, and music. She is still very talented with painting, cross stitch, and crafts.
My first post was the negative reinforcement I see or hear towards the hobby. It would not be a fair accessment not to reflect on the positive aspects received from buildling models.
I have shared and donated several builds to veterans, local museums, and built displays for local hobby shops back in the day. During those moments the look in the veterans eyes along with his thanks is enough to fill my coffers full. The stories the vets share as well as the support received from the museum's curator reinforce my love of this hobby that I can indeed use it to contribute to something bigger than me.
On a personal level, I agree with the most of you that maintaining and even improving hand to eye coordination is a bonus. Even the historical education and relaxing "therapy I garner from modeling cannot be gained anywhere else.
My other hobbies of shooting (trap. skeet, bench, steel target, etc.), motorcycling, and music (playing drums) also bring me a release from the mundain or stresses of daily life but they do not provide the same enjoyment I get from scale modeling.
While I would never consider myself a modeling snob, I do know where this hobby interest places me, and I'm OK with that. After all, it puts us all together in our clubs, contests, and on-line forums. The internet has given us "modelers" a rare gift. Here we can share, discuss, critique, learn, appreciate, and most importantly befriend fellow modellers.
Buy the way, I have a full set of left handed golf clubs if anyones interested(?)
Ben