The group of pilots that flew the -widow, including my other dad, pretty much are proud that no one was ever shot down by another a/c. He was thrown' about, kinda, in early '45, but thru a long and arduous fight home, avoided same. Seems that the pilot was beheaded by a 37mm in the Brenner Pass on the way to bomb trains, and "dad" crawled forward, took over the controls and flew in and then back out. Didn't bail out because the RO in the back was in shock, from the impact of the shell.
He had one victory in the P-61, and quite a few earlier in the Beaufighter. i have pictures I might share.