In general In terms of Molding quality and fit I would rank Aoshima, Dragon, and Hasegawa up at the top.Dragon gets beat up for their instructions and small parts, but in the case of the later, they're after high quality and it's how they do it to get it.
Trumpeter can be so-so; stay away from their Fletcher (USS The Sullivans) kit unless you like crude and bad. Lower to upper hull fit is typically annoying/bad for anything larger than a destroyer.
Academy is close to Trumpeter in quality but not quite as good; they aim at a lower price and it sometimes shows, but they're by no means crude or toy like.
Tamiya's molds are pretty old now; they're not bad, but the Revell of Germany Bismark is definitely nicer than the Tamiya. Their Fletcher is good, but suffers from underscale guns, which may or may not be worth paying attention to depending on your outlook.
Zvezda is similar to Academy and Trumpeter.
As far as WWII USN ships go, you're mainly going to be looking at Dragon, Tamiya, and Trumpeter. Hasegawa has done a nice CVE "Gambier Bay," but otherwise they and Aoshima concentrate on Japanese ships.
P.S. if you REALLY want to get big, look at the Revell 1/72nd Gato ;)