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Posted by patrick206 on Friday, January 15, 2016 1:30 PM

Jeff and I e-mailed back and forth for a few months, he never mentioned his illness until the FSM post about there being no hope left. He then told me how comforting it was to have his kids come home, and how much better it was for his wife to have everyone together.

He told me he was a railroad employee for many years, actually quite close to retirement and looking forward to it. He really enjoyed the travel around the country, while doing his job.

Just a very few days before his leaving us, his wife packed a picnic basket and they all took off for Glacier Nat'l Park, not too far from home. He said the weather was co-operative that day, but I don't know if they made it to the park, winter in the Rockies you know.

He loved his modeling hobby, always interested in learning more and advancing his skills. Humble about his abilities, but I think he was likely very good at his workbench.

I'm happy he called me a friend, he was surely my friend as well. My sincere condolences and sympathy to his family, his son Hunter was very nice to have honored Jeff's wishes, by letting us know about his passing.

Have a good rest, friend Jeff.

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  • From: Willamette Valley, Oregon
Posted by goldhammer on Friday, January 15, 2016 8:24 AM

I know he was hoping to finish the A-10, and hope he was able to.  If not, I would hope someone would complete it for the family in his honor.

 

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Posted by plasticjunkie on Friday, January 15, 2016 7:31 AM

My condolences to the family. I was sadenned with the news and wish Jeff eternal peace.

 

Ernie 

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Posted by tempestjohnny on Friday, January 15, 2016 5:37 AM

modelcrazy

I'm with you Wayne. Dammit this actually is hitting me hard.

 

I've actually had tears welling up for a man I really didn't know that I called friend

 

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Posted by modelcrazy on Thursday, January 14, 2016 11:37 PM

I'm with you Wayne. Dammit this actually is hitting me hard.

Steve

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Posted by Mopar Madness on Thursday, January 14, 2016 10:01 PM

Oh No. It happened so quickly.  He now knows no pain, no sorrow. My God, such a sad loss.

Chad

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Posted by waynec on Thursday, January 14, 2016 9:49 PM

stikpusher

Barely a week later we read this sad news

http://cs.finescale.com/fsm/general_discussion/f/50/t/169452.aspx

 

I know that you served and were from California. Farewell friend.

 

just Damn. 

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Posted by stikpusher on Thursday, January 14, 2016 9:15 PM

Barely a week later we read this sad news

http://cs.finescale.com/fsm/general_discussion/f/50/t/169452.aspx

 

I know that you served and were from California. Farewell friend.

 

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Sunday, January 10, 2016 4:47 PM

Terry,

Thank you friend...as I have stated it has been an honor and a pleasure being a part of this group. I regret it being a short time....like you said there is a plan in place. I'm sorry we didn't get to speak much. I sincerely wish you and your family great health and happinness. And make sure you live life and do something you my not have. Big Smile

Best wishes,

Jeff

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Posted by jibber on Sunday, January 10, 2016 4:35 PM

Jeff you're well respected here and now more than ever for your strength and good will. I really do believe theres a plan for all of us but sometimes it's difficult to figure out. All the best my friend and I'm sure your family will be strong too.

Terry 

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Sunday, January 10, 2016 12:16 PM

Thank you GoldHammer,

The past couple of days I have been talking with my family and assuring them I was ok and wanted them to celebrate our lives together and for them to mourn and then move on and be happy.

I told them I would haunt them if they wasted time mourning me too long (lol) My son and his wife live in the same state as my wife and I and he will help my wife move on. GH I am so sorry you lost your wife....I can only imagine the pain you suffered. I wish you a peaceful and healthy life.

Sincerely,

Jeff

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  • From: Willamette Valley, Oregon
Posted by goldhammer on Sunday, January 10, 2016 11:51 AM

I am another of those that hope, pray and wish the best for you in your trials.

 

It may not mean much, but from someone on the other side of the equation, family members will grieve, but somehow we find the strength and curage to go on, and slowly rebuild our lives.  I'm still in the process after my soulmate left over a year ago.  I didn't expect to outlast her, but here we are.  I know your fmily will as well.

May God bless you and make your journey to his loving arms as easy as possible.

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Sunday, January 10, 2016 11:27 AM

Mick,

Thank you sir for your kind words and I will live each day the best I can. You mentioned Boomer....it's amazing how dogs can sense when there is something wrong. Since we received the phone call and our follow up with the doctors' she has not left my side. Normally when we go to the dinner table she will stay laying by my chair or in her bed....now she follows me into every room and lays at my feet. I am going to miss my four legged best friend. I tried to play with her yesterday but all she wanted to do was lay in my lap.

Dogs are awesome creatures....truely a man's best friend.

Mick, again thank you and I wish you and your family many years of great health and happiness.

Sincerely,

Jeff

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  • From: Redcliffe, Queensland, Australia
Posted by Aussie Mick on Sunday, January 10, 2016 3:55 AM

Hello Jeff,

You don't know me, but when I read your post my heart went out to you. I'm so sorry to hear your news. As a fellow modeler and forum member I wish you all the best in your remaining time. Enjoy your family and live each day as it comes. And I'm sure Boomer will miss you too. God speed.

Regards

Mick

 

 

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  • From: hamburg michigan
Posted by fermis on Sunday, January 10, 2016 12:34 AM

I read you innitial post the other day, but couldn't respond.

I'm not much for words and tend to stick my foot, knee deep, in my mouth. As an example...at my aunts funeral, my cousin asked how I was doing...not even thinking of the situation...I casually blurted my standard response..."eh, I'm livin"...not very proper! That is no longer my standard response.

Anyway....I hope you got to see and do all you wanted to see and do, with no regrets. We're not here for a long time, so make it a good time!

For a lack of words...I tip my hat and raise a toast.Toast

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Saturday, January 9, 2016 11:17 PM

Eric (Tigerman),

Thank you for your kind words and prayers. Everyone in here has been so awesome. I couldn't believe how friendly and welcoming everyone has been. I made the mistake by letting my wife read the post and of course see started balling : ) lol. It took me almost an half hour to calm her done. lol. Women.

I have been blessed getting to know all of you. I have been lucky to have had one on one conversations with a hand full of you.....and have fully enjoyed them.

Bish, ModelCrazy, PlasticJunkie, Patrick206, RudyonWheels, Stikpusher, Brian Miller, Gamera and everyone else......Thank you from the bottom of my heart. From one human to another, I wish nothing but the best for you and your family.

Jeff     

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Posted by tigerman on Saturday, January 9, 2016 9:13 PM

I really can't think of much to add to what the others have said. It's only been one week of the New Year and already I've seen so many sad things from my customers and friends. I pray for you and your family. May your remaining days be peaceful and meaningful.

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 Eric 

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  • From: Central Florida
Posted by plasticjunkie on Saturday, January 9, 2016 7:42 PM

That is great Jeff. Nothing like being around the family in tough times. Thinking of you my brother, hang in there.

Ernie

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Saturday, January 9, 2016 6:58 PM

Thank you Wayne....and I too would like to converse until time comes.

Jeff     

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Saturday, January 9, 2016 5:37 PM

Hey PJ,

I am okay.....my kids and thier spouses are here and the family is just having a great visit. We are sitting around looking at photos from over the years and I'm really enjoying my time with my kids. Thank you so much for checking up on me. I am definetly going to miss this website and forum.

I gave my son my login and password information last night so when the time comes he can inform you.

I hope you are well,

Jeff

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Posted by plasticjunkie on Saturday, January 9, 2016 2:25 PM

Just a quick note checking up on you Jeff.

Ernie

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Posted by Brian Miller on Thursday, January 7, 2016 8:18 PM

ModelMan68

I am for sure going to finish the A10 Thunderbolt on my bench. 

 

 

modelman68, make sure you post some pics of the "Bolt." All your modeling friends would love to see it. And from what it sounds your having a second Christmas. make sure to check in often and let us know how you're doing. Stay strong and God bless. 

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  • From: Central Florida
Posted by plasticjunkie on Thursday, January 7, 2016 8:02 PM

Jeff

I pray to the Lord that I will be as brave as you when my time comes. I'm having a very difficult time writing this to you. Even though we have never met, I can feel you pain and anxiety cause I think of the same thing sometimes.

But remember that we are here on barrowed time, as part of a journey to a better place.

God bless you my friend.

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 7:04 PM

Thank you Templar,

I'm sitting here with my son and showing him the forums and all the great individuals that are on here. My son, daughter and thier spouses arrived today. It's wonderful to have them home for what ever time they can stay. Of course my wife is in full speed mode running around cooking and conversating with all of us. It has been a great day!!

Stikpusher, my daughter loved the photo of your 2 amigos. She loved the look on Chewy's face. "Really, can someone get her off of me".

I'm sitting here watching everyone and it has definetly brought a since of joy and happiness to me and my wife. Our kids have grown into strong individuals. And of course when the two of them are togther it never fails they get into a agruement or wrestling match. Well, I am going to sign off now.....time to be referee lol. Take care and have a great night everyone......BISH, if your out there I hope you are well and keeping the glue on the plastic.

Jeff     

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  • From: providence ,r.i.
Posted by templar1099 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 1:06 PM

I was saddened to read your post, but admire the stoic dignity you have appeared to have maintained throughout your struggle. Now may the great spirit guide you.

"le plaisir delicieux et toujours nouveau d'une occupation inutile"

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Posted by waynec on Thursday, January 7, 2016 12:18 PM

Highlander242

I'm not sure if we ever met or talked but we can as of now! I'm going to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that whatever time you have that you can just enjoy it with your family and friend. May God keep you close to side and comfort you.

God Bless!

 

Joe

 

so sorry to hear this. my feelings too.

Никто не Забыт    (No one is Forgotten)
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Posted by ModelMan68 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 12:05 PM

Thank you Cliff......me too

Jeff     

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Posted by Gamera on Thursday, January 7, 2016 10:55 AM

My thoughts and prayers too, I wish there were something more concrete I could do... 

Cliff

"I dream in fire but work in clay." -Arthur Machen

 

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 8:42 AM

Good morning everyone,

Stik, Patrick, TJ, Mississippi, Wolf, Checkmate, Fox, Hog, Karl and HL242

Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words. I sat out on the back porch this moring and was watching the sunrise and completely broke down. Guys I am so not ready for this and scared. I'm keeping a front because of my wife but I am so not ready. My kids are on the way...so that will help me focus on something and keep my wife busy LOL. I am going to do as much as possible before then....I am for sure going to finish the A10 Thunderbolt on my bench. Again, thank you everyone for your kindness and prayers.

Have a great day,

Jeff

Jeff     

a.k.a.  ModelMan68 

 

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