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The News I Didn't Want Too Hear
Posted by ModelMan68 on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 4:27 PM

Hello everyone,

Well, I got the phone call My wife and I were dreading. I have been battling cancer for the past 3 years and have come to the end of the battle. I have been through numerous rounds of treatment and drugs to no avail. It has finally come to the terminal stage. I have gone from a 6'-5" 230 pound man to a 118pound man. I'd hope to make it through. What scares me more than anything is leaving my wife alone. I know my son and daughter will be there but leaving her scares me to death.

The doctor stated it would take 1 to 2 months.......wow.....how do you prepare for this. I've stayed strong the entire time so my wife would not stress herself to much. Gentlemen, I want to thank you for bringing happiness into my life. It has been immense pleasure talking with all of you. I am going to do my best to make my last days great ones. I am thankful for the life I've had and have been blessed with wondeful family and friends.

I guess I would asked just one thing of you.....live life everyday. Make sure you never fail to tell your family and friends you love them. Be the best person you can be every day. I will try to communicate with you until the end. Again, thank you for making me feel so welcomed and it's been an honor

Jeff     

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Posted by modelcrazy on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 4:46 PM

Jeff,

 

I am so sorry, I don't know what to say, I had now idea. Since you joined you have been so active and I have considered you a friend. I can't imagine what you’re going through. Do you need anything? Is there anything I can do to help?

 

I will be praying for you and your family
Steve

 

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 5:16 PM

Steve,

First, thank you for calling me your friend. It has been a pleasure meeting you and the conversations we've had. I have not told anyone except family, friends and work, Kinda hard to hide massive weight and hair loss. Plus never been one to complain or talk about things. Steve, I really hope the medication you are taking right now works. I soooooo wanted to make it through this. Thank you for offering your help.....right now my wife and I kinda perpared for this and have everything ready. Thank you. I really wish the best for you and your family.

Sincere regards,

Jeff

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Posted by BlackSheepTwoOneFour on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 6:11 PM

I am so sorry to hear this. Sending prayers to you.

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 6:25 PM

Thank you BlackSheep.....I appreciate your prayers.

Jeff     

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Posted by wolfhammer1 on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 7:11 PM

Jeff, I am so sorry to hear this news.  I will keep you in my prayers.  May God grant you comfort and peace in your remaining days, and may you be surrounded with love, family and friends. 

John

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Posted by the doog on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 7:17 PM

I never knew you, but it takes a brave man to admit that he's nearing the end of his journey. I hope you have a peacful and painless passing to the other side, and wish the best for your family.

If there's a bright side to any of this, it may be that you got the opportunity to prepare your family and to make all amends and say goodbye, to repair burnt bridges and to go on with as many stray ends wrapped up as you can. Not many will get to do that; I just recently lost a dear friend who simply said he "didn't feel well" and was goin to lay down and that was it. Never saw it coming. Just....gone...

Strength and peace to you..Sleep

fox
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Posted by fox on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 7:49 PM

Jeff, can't find words to say.  We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.  

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Posted by hogfanfs on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 8:18 PM

Jeff,

You, and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May GOD bless you.

 Bruce

 

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Posted by tempestjohnny on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 8:53 PM
Jeff there are no words to say. I'm hopeful that I will have your strength in times like this. You are in my thoughts. Take good care John

 

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Posted by mississippivol on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 9:25 PM
I'm very sorry to hear your news. I am praying for you and your family.
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Posted by Highlander242 on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 9:59 PM

I'm not sure if we ever met or talked but we can as of now! I'm going to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that whatever time you have that you can just enjoy it with your family and friend. May God keep you close to side and comfort you.

God Bless!

 

Joe

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Posted by checkmateking02 on Wednesday, January 6, 2016 10:59 PM

Very sorry to hear this diagnosis. I wish and pray for you strength, comfort and healing.

"No more weeping, No more fight, No friends bleeding through the night, Just Divine embrace, Eternal light, In the Mansions of the Lord."

The peace of God be with you and your family.

 

 

 

 

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Posted by patrick206 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 12:38 AM

Friend Jeff

This was news I didn't want to hear either, I've truly enjoyed our infrequent chats. There are very few words that mean much at times like this, just know that I send my heartfelt positive thoughts to you and your family.

You're a brave man to face this as you are, with strength, dignity and acceptance. Please accept my sincere condolences, I hope for everything to be the best possible for you at this time.

I promise you I'll honor your request, I just interrupted my wife's reading time to tell her how much she means to me. I'll hold my family and friends close, loving each day with them that I have remaining.

One day at a time, Jeff, treasure each one.

My best thoughts and wishes, I thank you for your kindness and friendship.

Patrick 

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Posted by stikpusher on Thursday, January 7, 2016 3:02 AM

I really don't have the words to properly express my thoughts and feelings on your announcement here tonite. From the bottom of my heart I truly hope that you may still yet prove the Doc mistaken. Yet I profoundly admire your courage and dignity regarding the way that you are facing this situation. You are a good man Jeff.

 

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 8:42 AM

Good morning everyone,

Stik, Patrick, TJ, Mississippi, Wolf, Checkmate, Fox, Hog, Karl and HL242

Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words. I sat out on the back porch this moring and was watching the sunrise and completely broke down. Guys I am so not ready for this and scared. I'm keeping a front because of my wife but I am so not ready. My kids are on the way...so that will help me focus on something and keep my wife busy LOL. I am going to do as much as possible before then....I am for sure going to finish the A10 Thunderbolt on my bench. Again, thank you everyone for your kindness and prayers.

Have a great day,

Jeff

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Posted by Gamera on Thursday, January 7, 2016 10:55 AM

My thoughts and prayers too, I wish there were something more concrete I could do... 

Cliff

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 12:05 PM

Thank you Cliff......me too

Jeff     

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Posted by waynec on Thursday, January 7, 2016 12:18 PM

Highlander242

I'm not sure if we ever met or talked but we can as of now! I'm going to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that whatever time you have that you can just enjoy it with your family and friend. May God keep you close to side and comfort you.

God Bless!

 

Joe

 

so sorry to hear this. my feelings too.

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Posted by templar1099 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 1:06 PM

I was saddened to read your post, but admire the stoic dignity you have appeared to have maintained throughout your struggle. Now may the great spirit guide you.

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Thursday, January 7, 2016 7:04 PM

Thank you Templar,

I'm sitting here with my son and showing him the forums and all the great individuals that are on here. My son, daughter and thier spouses arrived today. It's wonderful to have them home for what ever time they can stay. Of course my wife is in full speed mode running around cooking and conversating with all of us. It has been a great day!!

Stikpusher, my daughter loved the photo of your 2 amigos. She loved the look on Chewy's face. "Really, can someone get her off of me".

I'm sitting here watching everyone and it has definetly brought a since of joy and happiness to me and my wife. Our kids have grown into strong individuals. And of course when the two of them are togther it never fails they get into a agruement or wrestling match. Well, I am going to sign off now.....time to be referee lol. Take care and have a great night everyone......BISH, if your out there I hope you are well and keeping the glue on the plastic.

Jeff     

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Posted by plasticjunkie on Thursday, January 7, 2016 8:02 PM

Jeff

I pray to the Lord that I will be as brave as you when my time comes. I'm having a very difficult time writing this to you. Even though we have never met, I can feel you pain and anxiety cause I think of the same thing sometimes.

But remember that we are here on barrowed time, as part of a journey to a better place.

God bless you my friend.

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Posted by Brian Miller on Thursday, January 7, 2016 8:18 PM

ModelMan68

I am for sure going to finish the A10 Thunderbolt on my bench. 

 

 

modelman68, make sure you post some pics of the "Bolt." All your modeling friends would love to see it. And from what it sounds your having a second Christmas. make sure to check in often and let us know how you're doing. Stay strong and God bless. 

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Posted by plasticjunkie on Saturday, January 9, 2016 2:25 PM

Just a quick note checking up on you Jeff.

Ernie

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Saturday, January 9, 2016 5:37 PM

Hey PJ,

I am okay.....my kids and thier spouses are here and the family is just having a great visit. We are sitting around looking at photos from over the years and I'm really enjoying my time with my kids. Thank you so much for checking up on me. I am definetly going to miss this website and forum.

I gave my son my login and password information last night so when the time comes he can inform you.

I hope you are well,

Jeff

Jeff     

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Saturday, January 9, 2016 6:58 PM

Thank you Wayne....and I too would like to converse until time comes.

Jeff     

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Posted by plasticjunkie on Saturday, January 9, 2016 7:42 PM

That is great Jeff. Nothing like being around the family in tough times. Thinking of you my brother, hang in there.

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Posted by tigerman on Saturday, January 9, 2016 9:13 PM

I really can't think of much to add to what the others have said. It's only been one week of the New Year and already I've seen so many sad things from my customers and friends. I pray for you and your family. May your remaining days be peaceful and meaningful.

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Posted by ModelMan68 on Saturday, January 9, 2016 11:17 PM

Eric (Tigerman),

Thank you for your kind words and prayers. Everyone in here has been so awesome. I couldn't believe how friendly and welcoming everyone has been. I made the mistake by letting my wife read the post and of course see started balling : ) lol. It took me almost an half hour to calm her done. lol. Women.

I have been blessed getting to know all of you. I have been lucky to have had one on one conversations with a hand full of you.....and have fully enjoyed them.

Bish, ModelCrazy, PlasticJunkie, Patrick206, RudyonWheels, Stikpusher, Brian Miller, Gamera and everyone else......Thank you from the bottom of my heart. From one human to another, I wish nothing but the best for you and your family.

Jeff     

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Posted by fermis on Sunday, January 10, 2016 12:34 AM

I read you innitial post the other day, but couldn't respond.

I'm not much for words and tend to stick my foot, knee deep, in my mouth. As an example...at my aunts funeral, my cousin asked how I was doing...not even thinking of the situation...I casually blurted my standard response..."eh, I'm livin"...not very proper! That is no longer my standard response.

Anyway....I hope you got to see and do all you wanted to see and do, with no regrets. We're not here for a long time, so make it a good time!

For a lack of words...I tip my hat and raise a toast.Toast

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