Tanker-Builder
Toshi and Ezra!
Hey guys, building four at a time is easy. Ya just stack them on the top of the paint indexing drawers( A little plastic file cabinet.) Two models wide and two high. The one I work on gets front position.
I do have to admit to you Tosh that I am a little tad jealous. You are building so much time with Ezra and I never got to do that with mine. All because of a snooty response to something said in a very Emotional time ( My first Wife's Memorial Service). Not me -(Them ) The Children ( Mine).
I'm in the same situation as you. I refuse contact 100% with everyone on my side of the family due to...
Guess? Money!!!!
I returned home to take care of my dad knowing that he didn't have that long to live. I dropped everything and I literally mean everything in Amsterdam to return home to be a in home care person to him. To me, that's the most honorable thing you can do for your parents as they did the same for you.
That's how I met Mrs. Toshi. I took a part time job as a waiter at a local very well know restaurant called Zippy's. Mrs. Toshi was a co-worker of mine. I never really took the job that seriously as I was playing music in the evenings.
I used to go to work at Zippy's to BS with customers. One day we were so busy yet I still stood at a table of my regular customers whom we all shared an interest in philatelic. Mrs. Toshi got upset with me and yelled out at the top of her voice so that even the customers could hear, she said (In a very angry and confrontational way) stop talking and clear tables, cash people out, sit people to their tables. In other words; "Do Your Dam Job"!!!! LOL!!!!!!
Right then and there I knew she is wife material by telling men what to do! Lol! The rest is history. As for the money situation, when my father passed away, everyone wanted a piece of his life insurance policy. Even my grandparents wanted in, matter of fact, they threatened to sue me.
But everyone was too late. I knew what to do as I took power of attorney. And that was that. I took my family and moved off that very over crowded volcanic rock 3000 miles away from anything. It was too expensive to live there as Hawaii doesn't have any form of funds in production, its economy is funded by tourism.
Of course my main point to move my family away from the toxic attitude of my side of the family. Till this day, my children know nothing about my side of the family. With that being said, we are very close to Mrs. Toshi's family. That's why I insist Ezra's time with us is so very important and also my priority in his guidance in life.
There is only one family member that I still keep in contact with almost everyday, that would be my one and only younger brother. He's a EMT in Palm Springs, California. Anyway, every family has a skeleton in their closet. Thank you sir for sharing as well as the read and reply! Your support means so much to Ezra and I!
Your friend's, Toshi & Ezra