Karl, I agree with what you say regards modelling your way. The problem I have is that the ''extreme'' weathering has now become so popular it is almost pushed as the only way to model. My biggest concern is that many who may be new to modelling may think its done to be accurate, but it is not. I like my builds to be as accurate as possible, given the constraints of a plastic model and my own skills and excepting that a little artistic interpretation is unavoidable.
For example, i know you believe in the idea of using the paint to create interest. I don't. For me, the subject is interesting enough as it is. Another example is putting an AFV ''into'' the ground rather than on it to show how heavy it is. Again, I don't agree. I know how heavy a Tiger is, and anyone who looks at a model tank, even if they know nothing about that vehicle, will know it weighs a lot.
Neither approach is right or wrong, I believe both have there place. But the artistic approach has taken such a hold, those who try to model with a more realistic approach seem to be overlooked or even looked down on.
If I see a model that has colour modulation and I know that's what the builder wanted, then fine, I can except it for the nice looking build it is. If I see a lot of rust on some tracks, I may mention that its not accurate, but if the builder says he know but he likes the look of it, that's fine with me.
I really do think its time for those with both approach's to respect each other, give constructive comments where we feel warranted, but excepting that the builder but prefer a different approach to ourselves.