Not to get into a philosophical op-ed on modern society, but it's kind of alarming - to me, anyway. I see fewer and fewer children out playing pick-up games of sports and what-not. I also see fewer children riding bicycles, yet more and more young "adults" riding them - and I'm not talking about riding them for healthy sojourns in the park, but through the neighborhoods for the purpose of "getting around"
When I got out of the military, at age 41, I was concerned with joining the workforce being older. I started out working for construction contractors, then got on at a machine shop, and now have been an aircraft worker for going on three years. Both contractors I worked for recently adopted policies where they refuse to hire younger people for two reasons: an attitude of work-avoidance, and very poor or non-existent hand skills with an adverse attitude to learning and developing them - mind you, these are their sentiments that they didn't come to overnight, one of them nearly lost his house from being sued by customers who had sub-standard work done by his younger, former employees. When I went to trade school to learn aircraft assembly - a short, 9-week, very basic program - it was glaringly obvious how steep a drop off of maturity there was in the students in their 20's. One had to be sent home after throwing a temper tantrum because the instructor refused to give him the answers to the tests. All of the older students (myself included) who applied for work were hired - most of us immediately. Out of the 20-somethings (almost half the class), only 3 were hired and maintained employment. One of them got hired at the same time I did, at the same company. He didn't make it through probation. Why? because he was constantly late to work, and complained any time he had to "do something"
Working with one's hands has many beneficial effects, some of them possibly critical to survival. Besides making oneself more marketable, flexible, and adaptable economically, it also builds self-esteem (true self-esteem) and wards off depression. Plus, if anything catastrophic were to happen, which is always a real possibility in life, one would be able to manage the world around them as opposed to succumbing to despair out of sheer ignorance of "what to do?" and "how to do it?"
Kids should play and make messes and learn and do things. A life of ease is not natural, nor would it be much of a life at all. I'm glad I enjoy process