Girlfriend hopes gone with my hobby

dont allow the wait,to darken your soul,to dry up your hopes....just live your life,know what would make you happy,and work torwards that as a goal.

I can tell you,I did many things when I was young that I now consider to be the heighth of stupidity,marrying a stripper was one of them.

I am not saying to NOT improve your social skills,or modify your looks...just do it for you....no one else.

oh,and check back in in a few weeks or months and tell us how you met her

I started building when I was five.  All through school I only had a few friends and was constantly harrassed and bullied by my older brothers and eventually all through school until I managed to graduate.

I kept building after I got drafted, joined the Air Force, and went through the school I needed for my job.  I maintained some friends at work and kept building.

One day I ran into a girl who was also in the A.F. and ran into her a couple more times.  Eventually I had to tell her what I did in my spare time.  She accepted practicing shoot because of my job but considered models just toys.  I invited her to a club meeting or two and eventually accepted this too.

Believe me, you can't feel as bad about yourself as I used to and I had no one to show me what to do

It takes time.  Don't push too hard, someone will turn up.  I don't know what you do in your daily life or how old you are, but it will work out.

Don't sweat it. Life is not about romance. TV and movies will have you believe that if you find the perfect mate your life will be complete. It's bull. Don't measure your life by romance--you will never be satisfied.

First, learn to love yourself and make your life meaningful on your own terms. That will make you more attractive than any physical characteristic. If modeling is your passion, don't be ashamed. Be proud and unashamed of what makes you who you are. And above all, get help if you need it--there's no shame in doing so.

I wouldn't sweat it. You'll find the right girl when you least expect it