Gene - can see why you are so fond of her....she's a beauty, and can tell she knows it and uses it to advantage.
TB - have had a couple like that, one that loved to crawl into my coat, turn around and peer out at the world, and the wife taught him to give high fives. He was left pawed to boot.
You guys are right...people have dogs, cats have staff.
Have several, one comes in when she decides she wants a belly rub.