Blaming technology is turning the blame from the people truly responsible. The parents. Your kid spends too much time watching TV? Whose fault is that? Who bought and paid for the TV and cable? I have lots of tech in my home. My two sons each have a computer, and have had their own for most of their lives. We also have game consoles and DVDs. But we also have guitars and pianos, kazoos, tambourines, bongos, maracas, harmonicas, fifes, and recorders. We have paper and crayons and ink. We have saws and hammers and wood. Gardens to plant and lawns to play on. And my wife and I made sure that the kids saw US doing those activities. If you lead, they will follow.
I play computer and video games myself. I can see how someone could spend far too much time playing them. That's why I limit my kid's activities on those items (its why I limit my OWN time), and have them do other activities. It's why I have introduced them to music (one plays piano and the other guitar). I hear other parents complaining that they can't get their kids to practice their piano scales, and my kids practice at least an hour a day. The difference usually is that the other parents don't play, and I do. They invited a friend over on Saturday and they jammed for four hours straight. Not once did they play a computer or video game. They didn't even spend any time texting on their cells, as they were all having far too much fun. They also didn't take time to empty my fridge, for which I am truly grateful. Three teenage boys in a kitchen is a frightening sight!
The calculators required by middle and high school students are
scientific calculators. Long division in the head is one thing
(and is a skill my children have learned), but trigonometry and calculus
is a bit more difficult without a tool of some kind. When I was a kid
in those dark days just before Texas Instruments, we used slide rules. I
still have mine right here (Sterling Slide Rule by Precision Scientific
Instruments) on my desk as a reminder of the days before computers. But
I stopped using it exactly when I got my first TI calculator!
I find it very amusing to read a computer forum where people are complaining about technology. I can't be the only person who sees the irony of that, am I? At what point should we say enough? Before we cure cancer, or after? Should we have stopped at the Feudal State stage, or should we aim higher? Perhaps that golden nostalgic time in the 50s, where the cars had lots of chrome and June Cleaver looked so nice in her string of pearls, and the kids had crew cuts, father knew best, and the colored people used those fountains over there? Should the height of our technology be the backyard bomb shelter?