With regards to practicality, all of the weapons should be deployed from underneath or directed sideways from the fuselage... I realize guns can be shot through propellers with the use of a timing chain, and rockets could probably be similarly configured, but I personally wouldn't bother with all the complexities. I also don't like the idea of systems only being available when in helo configuration... the craft will be slow and vulnerable in this position, and it shouldn't have to enter it to get a shot off.
One way to do this is to leave a weapons/bomb bay that can be tailored to each mission (combination of retractable rocket pods and small diameter bombs; look to see what F-35 and F-22 are doing in this arena). Less flexible, but more aggressive looking, would be to permanently install an F-86D-style rocket launcher (EDIT - though permanent, keep it retractable). Or perhaps you combine the two... permanent rocket launcher, and then small bay behind for bombs/hellfires.
Sensors should incorporate whatever Cobra and Apache have; may also want to look at Harrier and Comanche to see if there's anything novel there. Radar may be a good idea, but I don't know where it'd go with the most likely spaces already claimed by guns or rockets. I like the idea of a chin turret, but would personally go for a Comanche-style turret (lower profile) or a semi-retractable Apache-style cannon.
Most likely spot (if there's any space left) for a crew served weapon would be at the very back, and would probably look like a door gunner on a Blackhawk. I have a hard time seeing the gunner racing to move it from side to side in the heat of battle... keep it dedicated to one side only.
(Trigger - problem with targeting in side-by-side airframe is related to use of helmet-mounted sensors to aim gun... in the Apache or Cobra, the weapons guy can see out both sides of the bird, so it makes sense to have the gun pointing in the direction they're looking. But when the pilots sit next to each other, their visibility with regards to the other side of the bird is limited, making helmet-mounted sights more difficult, though not impossible)
Best spot for the refueling probe would be in the nose (simply scribe a rectangle); I would anticipate refueling only in the plane configuration, so a long refueling boom probably isn't required. Another option may be an S-3 Viking style probe that extends from the canopy (claim it's there, and perhaps scribe a circle).