Son Of Medicine Man
I feel for you Jim. I am not looking forward to the day when my Mom passes away. She had to handle the paper work for when my Dad passed away, but when she does, it will be up to me.
Ken
Well, all this is being made worse by the fact that my sister is being resistant to the idea that I will need to sell the home. She believes that she should live in the house for free as she has no income and neither does her good for nothing 22 year old son. He is staying in the house right now and "has no where to go"! As the executor and PR there is little they can do to stop me in what I need to do, but it would be so much easier if she were cooperative instead of being a road block! The thing is, it may come down to where I may have to go to formal proceedings to evict him from the house! When this is all said and done, I will have no family left, at least not by blood! I really don't need her, as she wasn't there anyway when I could have used someone, if even on a supportive level. I made all the decisions when it came to Mom's medical care, her end of life care, and I was the one who had to put her in the ground!
Although it is unlikely she will survive me, with the way she smokes and the drug use in her past, I am going to be sure that there is paperwork in place that excludes her from being involved in anyway, if something should happen to me.
On an added note, after I made all the arraignments, all she had to do was show up for the funeral. She shows up late, and lives less that 15 minutes from the cemetery!
I apologize for the rant, it just sort of just came out.....