What a let-down today was! I have been going rounds with the bank trying to gain access to some of Mom's accounts and a safety deposit box, contents unknown, now for weeks! We have been trying to avoid opening probate court with the property not held by the trust being under 60K, and the bank insisting we do this per their policies! It is not required by law we do this, but the bank wanted otherwise! Finally, they gave in Friday, and I headed over to the bank Saturday and was finally able to close all the accounts. The box was held at another branch and I headed there to open it up. Imagine my disappointment when I opened it up and found it was empty! Mom had told me weeks before she passed not to forget about it, and I never pushed beyond that as to what was in it. Don't get me wrong, I didn't expect to find it stuffed with cash, gold, diamonds or anything like that, but anything would have been better. Photographs, a letter, documents,some personal items, just something! I had a tough time also, when I saw Mom's writing on the paperwork for the box.
I'll talk a bit about my projects later, but I need to go for a drive or something for now, and get out of the house.
Jim